Backpacking Travel

Tracks to Machu Pichu, Peru

Walking tracks through the Andes, Peru

So How Does Vagabonding Travel Feel?

Imagine waking up and every day is Saturday. You are alone in a strange place far from home. Your senses are working overtime to translate all the new smells, sights, and sounds into something familiar. Even simple tasks such as getting something to eat require much more effort. The new challenges present stress, but the more of the culture that you unlock, the more confident you become. It feels amazing to speak new words and be understood in the local language.

You are “rich” by local financial standards and no one knows who you are. You answer only to yourself and your own conscience. This is a true test of who you are as a human being – you can reinvent your personality. You have the power to be anyone.

Backpacking travel in Dahab, Egypt

Dahab, Egypt

You bought a one-way ticket so there are no time restrictions; for the first time in your life you feel as if you are “going with the flow.” You don’t even own a watch. You listen to your body: when it is hungry, you eat; when it is tired, you sleep. For probably the first time since you were a child, you are tuned to your body’s natural rhythms. You never expected backpacking travel to have made you feel healthier.

You start to realize that you are doing just fine with the things in your bag and that you don’t need much else. All the other material things you had at home were never really necessary. The size of your backpack keeps you from buying many things to take home. For the first time you are actively trying not to accumulate things.

You were slightly shy back at home, but here everyone is easy to talk to. You meet so many new people that you have to try to be alone sometimes. At meals, you simply approach complete strangers’ tables and sit, assuming that it is fine to do so. No one is hostile; other solo travelers enjoy your company. You swap stories, practice languages, and meet people from all over the world. You might even find yourself falling in love with some of these people.

Waterfall in Kanchanaburi, Thailand

Kanchanaburi, Thailand

Full-time travel is so fast and furious that there is no time for the usual protocols which prevent people from being true to themselves. You have never felt so passionate, so honest, so alive.

When you grow tired of doing activities or seeing things with your new travel friends, you simply part company. It shocks you at how fast and passionate your new friendships have developed — reaching the same levels that would have taken months or years at home. You exchange a sad goodbye and swap emails, but the truth is that you will probably never see this person ever again.

The pain of the goodbye quickly fades because the weight of your rucksack digging into your shoulders is familiar and welcomed. Surely there must be new adventures waiting down the road; your sad goodbye turns into a smile because you know that your new friend is probably thinking the same. Backpacking travel forces you to live in the present, rather than worry about the future or past. New experiences, new dangers, and new friendships are waiting to be discovered.

The sweat tickles down the side of your forehead and the road stretches out in front of you. You can literally choose any direction on a map to go and no one will say anything different.

The freedom of backpacking travel is intoxicating to you.

Perhentian Kecil, Malaysia

Perhentian Kecil, Malaysia

When you reach the next island, you start all over. You learn the town, the names, the other travelers’ faces all over again. Every day is spent walking in the jungle, exploring temples, caves, and scuba diving. Stuff that should probably be dangerous, but at the time it makes your body vibrate with survival. You have already tried things you never would have done at home. You are getting so much sunshine and exercise that you have never felt healthier or more energetic in your life.

backpackers party

An island party

At night you party continuously. Unless you are sick, you go out and party the night away with other backpackers — it is expected. Everyone dances like it’s their last night on earth…and if you mess up on your deep dive tomorrow morning, it could be.

Your home, which waits thousands of miles away, seems like something that happened in a dream a long time ago. You start to lose all sense of time. You are not sure what you are going to do when your year of backpacking travel is over.

Inevitably one day you find yourself standing at the airport back in your home country. It feels foreign to see so many other people of your same race in one place. You almost want to grab a few of them and start telling them mad tales of your adventures over the last year. Your friendly attempts are seldom returned here; these people are all in a hurry to either earn or spend money.

At home, everything seems to be moving in slow motion. You can’t believe how expensive things are. You still convert the prices to the currency that you just left. Life is too easy here and you are growing bored. There are no giant spiders or massive scorpions in your room to keep you guessing.

For a while, you still meet people equally as fast because no one else is playing by the same rules as you are. For some reason, you feel like you are still traveling. You still take your shoes off at the door, and you are not used to having so many clothes to choose from in the closet. You survived just fine for a year with only five shirts. You retain your new cultural habits and are proud to be different — you earned it.

Backpacking in Vang Vieng, Laos

Backpacking in Vang Vieng, Laos

At first, it feels great to be home. You missed your friends and family. You try to share your stories and answer their “so how was it?” questions, but you find that you cannot relate. How can you describe a year worth of life changing adventure in one simple conversation? They nod as if they understood and usually start talking about something else. They barely even acknowledged the fact that you were swimming with sharks a few weeks ago or that you found a thousand-year-old temple.

As the excitement of being home turns more into frustration, you find yourself parked in front of the computer. It is the magical link to your lost travel friends. You take in their reports from the field, and find yourself wishing that you were back out there.

More and more, you are drawn to the computer, checking email dozens of times a day. You know flight prices by heart. You crave news from that magical world you left behind a couple of months ago. You spend all of your time looking through journal entries and pictures. The rift between you and some of your dearest friends at home has widened. You are very different now and everyone knows it. All that you want to talk about is travel and people don’t like that.

As it becomes more and more apparent that your old daily life will never be the same, your discontent grows. All you can think about is getting back to that magic place, stepping over the snakes, and dancing the night away with those strangers. You would do anything to smell the ocean again. It never even occurred to you that backpacking travel would change your life so much.

One day, even though you can’t afford it, you sit down and book another ticket; relief rushes through your body.

Once again you are alone in a strange place far from home. Your senses are working overtime to translate all the new smells……

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43 Responses to “Backpacking Travel”

  1. Sounds exactly like the way I feel. Very well said.

  2. that doesnt make people want to travel?

  3. Hey dude, just have to say, this is one of the best descriptions of backpacking and all the feelings associated with it that I have ever come across. Cheers!

  4. really well said. Makes me wanna hop on a plane to go backpacking anytime now :)

  5. It sounds frighteningly inviting!

  6. Greetings from Korea … I know exactly what you say … have been on the road, over 100 countries, since 1988. Am still addicted. And alone. Now, age 42. Am from New Zealand. Heading to Central America / Cuba, soon … on the road.

    Regards – MRP AKA thecandytrail

  7. Hola de Mexico….I am a retired expat loving the backpacking adventures…Planning a trek thru Central America soon w/a new friend from Florida.
    You have a wonderful way w/words. They are mesmorizing and duplicate how I feel when “on the road again” as Willie Nelson sings about…
    Keep on trekkin’
    A fellow female traveler with “The wanderlust.”

  8. so im sitting at my desk at my 9-5 job read this… drooling. then it got to the end where it said something about running to the computer checking out emails and pictures yada yada… and i started to smile. because thats exactly what im doing.

    thank you for making my day :)

    i went to the south pacific for two months half a year ago… and im leaving everythign behind me in three months to go round the world.

    cheers

  9. Wow! I just read this and it’s exactly how I feel all the time. I wasn’t even gone for that long, but I’m longing to go again and I feel like nobody can relate. Very well written.

    *Off to look at flights.

  10. Wow Greg. My exact thoughts in writing!

  11. every day is saturday….that says a lot! Great post

  12. Beautiful:)

  13. I totally agree with your feelings of being back in the US and life being so boring. I was in Asia for 6 months and it was the best time of my life. I would have called it home and never looked forward to coming back home. Just making a few more bucks and will be heading out

  14. Yep you got it right. I’m an almost 77yrs. old, lady round-th-world traveller. At the computer checking out flights and sights. Just don’t want to run into that nasty flu. Anybody gots thoughts about Dahab Egypt????

  15. Poetry at its best, love it. I want to get this tattoed on me, but its a bit long lol!

  16. INVITING! Thank you for putting it in words! Happy Travels

  17. So awesome. It brings back memories of how I felt the very first time I went traveling.

  18. Stephen O'Regan May 17, 2010 at 18:15 pm

    Love every bit of ur blog. I’ve been travelling myself for about five years now and every time I return home feel the exact same way. Been home 6 mths now which is the longest and about to head off on an overland trip from San Diego to south of Argentina. Reading this description its as if I wrote it myself. I share all the exact same views. Good luck with the job in South East Asia. I would love to make a job out of travelling. If you dont mind me asking how did u get it?

  19. All I have to say is WOW! :) Great post and gorgeous photos!

  20. going to book a flight that i cannot afford. ;-p

  21. Your description is exactly how I feel. Two years ago I travelled to New-Zealand for three months. I hitched, ran and trekked around the country :-). I could never imagine that this decision would change my person dramaticaly. Originally I looked at it as a once in a lifetime opportunety. A thing you do before you start making money and setlle down. However, soon after my return to Belgium I found myself dreaming of a new travel. One year later I actually embarked on a new trip: 6 months South America. This time I went with my girlfriend. Now I find myself in a very awkward situation. Despite I deeply love my girlfriend (she wants to settle now) and I actually enjoy my current job I feel a constant yearning to leave again. I developped the eyes of a dreamer and in my mind I’m constantly making new plans. I spend more and more time behind my computer, reading stories about various destinations. I’m working now, enjoying what I do, making plans to live together with my girlfriend but at the same time my mind is set to go and leave everything behind. Sometimes I think the actual leaving will become inevitable. The decision will be hard.

  22. 7 years and counting and my wanderlust hasn’t left me for a moment. It has been 7 years since I felt ocean sand beneath my feet, 7 years since I visited a night market, and each of those years I have been aware of ticket prices and yearning to strap on my pack and not look back. And in 9 weeks, I am!

  23. Wow! I don’t have words for what i have just read! I’m from S Africa and am planning my first backpackingtrip to Indi in Feb. I can’t Wait!

  24. WOW. such inspiring words :)

  25. Ahhhh this post drives me crazy! I can’t wait to get the frick out of the uSa and travel. This is actually how I feel. I travel and then have to come back and work! I cant wait to get a flippin location independent job. Well im workin on that. nice stumblin upon your blog…..im gonna take a deeper look around.

  26. !!Wow, this was bang on what I experienced!!

  27. this is an awesome read! thank you for the inspiration

  28. Very nicely said. I feel the same way about long-distance hiking. I am planning a 5 month thru-hike of the Pacific Crest Trail starting in April, 2012. I’m blogging about it here: http://russmease@blogspot.com. I have included some thoughts on the office life you mention and I have finally decided it’s not for me. After the PCT, perhaps a tour through Asia for the winter?

  29. Well said. Was in Africa for 6 years, back for 1. I just can’t get comfortable here anymore. And it seems others I know can’t get comfortable with me. As you have stated, ‘We all change’. Can’t wait to get out again and be free from too many choices, too much news, and too much pettiness.

  30. This article is just delicious.

  31. Sounds amazing. But how do you make money on the road? I’m interested in travelling for a few years but money is of course the issue…

    Brilliantly written piece by the way.

  32. Loved reading this, it’s so strange coming home because NO ONE can relate to what happened to us while abroad and most people are terrified of even thinking about your stories let alone go out and make their own.

  33. I really enjoyed reading this. Ive always wanted to travel especially backpack anywhere around the world and this inspired me. Im gonna look up info and try to get out there as soon as possible. Thank you for this.

  34. This could not be worded better. It’s a perfect read for people who don’t understand why we do what we do, a great pick me up for someone who has been home for a few months or just a reminder to us travelers who every now and again forget just how amazing our lives are. Thanks so much for this!

  35. This is hands down, my favorite travel article I have ever read! It describes the roller coaster and addiction of backpacking perfectly and even though, I’m in China TEFLing right now, it makes me want to go out and start moving again! Outstanding article… I’m sharing it, linking it, subscribing, etc.
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  36. I could not have said it better myself! Sadly, I’m in the back-home phase, counting second until I graduate university and can take off again!

  37. Glad to see that I’m not alone with this weird lost feeling after traveling on the road for 7 months and finally being home. Have booked my next tickets out but it still seems strange at home

  38. you can find your self.. you can find out real human life..

  39. After just two weeks I felt exactly like that… I cant wait till I finish school and can leave with just my dog and my pack.

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